Twenty Traits Of Malignant Narcissism ~ Seven

*THE CONTROLLER/MANIPULATOR: pits people against each other. Keeps his allies and targets separated. Is verbally skillful at twisting words and actions. Is charismatic and usually gets his way. Often undermines our support network and discourages us from seeing our family and friends. Money is often his objective. Other people’s money is even better. He is ruthless, demanding and cruel. This control-freak bully wants you pregnant, isolated and financially dependent on him. Appears pitiful, confused and in need of help. We rush in to help him with our finances, assets, and talents. We may be used as his proxy interacting with others on his behalf as he sets us up to take the fall or enjoys the performance he is directing.

My posts relating to this trait are:

How We Met And The Military Ball

Meeting His Eldest Sister, Her husband And Their Daughters

Our First And Second Shopping Trip To The Mall Together

The Excuse I had Been Looking For

Our Marriage By Proxy

Western Union Money Order

And So The Lies Continue

Paying For His Car And More Lies

He Wanted Me To Keep Quiet About His Behaviour

Our Trip To See His Daughter In Montana

Abusing Me Whilst Pregnant, He Started To Call Me Ugly

He Wanted Me To Work Whilst He Stayed At Home

Heavily Pregnant, Hungry And Homeless

Our Disastrous Trip To New York Whilst Heavily Pregnant

Finding Ourselves In Up State New York

He Claims To Be Suffering From PTSD To Claim Disability

Verbal Abuse

Emotional And Mental Abuse

Financial Abuse

Well, Hello Mr. Crazy

Persia That’s All Bullshit So No One Is Gonna Hear It

Facebook Message

Tomorrow Is Making Me Nervous

Defense Strategy: Know the ‘nature of the beast’. Facing his failure and consequences will be his best lesson. Be suspicious of his motives, and avoid involvement. Don’t bail him out.

See Part One

See Part Two

See Part Three

See Part Four

See Part Five

See Part Six

(*From the “Narcissism Book Of Quotes”)

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