Twenty Traits Of Malignant Narcissism ~ Twelve

*THE RAGER: flies off the handle for little or no provocation. Has a severely disproportionate overreaction. Childish tantrums. His rage can be intimidating. He wants control, attention and compliance. In our hurt and confusion we struggle to make things right. Any reaction is his payoff. He seeks both good or bad attention. Even our fear, crying, yelling, screaming, name calling, hatred are his objectives. If he can get attention by cruelty he will do so.

The Journey To Meet His Mother And Sister For The First Time

Meeting His Sister, Her Husband And Their Daughters

Paying for His Car And More Lies

Our Trip To See His Daughter In Montana

Abusing Whilst Pregnant, He Started To Call Me Ugly

Physical Abuse ~ Part One

Physical Abuse ~ Part Two

Defense Strategy: Manage your responses. Be fully independent. Don’t take the bait of his verbal abuse. Expect emotional hurt. Volence is possible.

See Part One

See Part Two

See Part Three

See Part Four

See Part Five

See Part Six

See Part Seven

See Part Eight

See Part Nine

See Part Ten

See Part Eleven

(*From the “Narcissism Book Of Quotes”)

10 thoughts on “Twenty Traits Of Malignant Narcissism ~ Twelve

  1. The Rager. He’s (unfortunately) very familiar. OTT reactions to the smallest perceived provocations, leaving us wondering where that extreme anger comes from.

    Thing is, after I got out I realised that the rage wasn’t actually real. He didn’t have an anger problem, because it was manufactured rage – designed solely to secure attention and consolidate control.

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