“If you continue to maintain contact with them, they will continue to manipulate and exploit you because that’s what their nature is, in spite of how “wonderful” they were in the beginning. That was a stage play they performed just for you.” ~ Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed
One of the most important aspects of maintaining No Contact and going on to recover is being able to see your narcissistic partner for who (and what) they truly are. They can seem so genuine sometimes, and we make the mistake of assuming that they must have some understandable reason to be hurtful. We find it too hard to accept the idea that some people are cunning, devious and ruthless…and that our partner is one of them. After all, we shared our very selves with them. We trusted them. We loved them.
Allow me to offer you some critical information that may help you in leaving your pathological relationship and maintaining No Contact. A common struggle among people who reach out to me for coaching is getting stuck in a crazy cycle of trying to “make” their partner understand the pain they’ve caused them. They try to “make them” understand how they…
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