The Narcissist’s Fan Club

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3 thoughts on “The Narcissist’s Fan Club

  1. Great observation about dating or being a partner to a narcissist. I am now very wary of people that say “she was controlling and insecure” about an ex. My first thought is “what did you do to her to make her controlling and insecure” In the presence or genuine and faithful love women are rarely insecure. If, however, every time her partner isn’t in her presence (and sometimes when he is) he is pouring it on to another woman and trying to seduce her, its creates insecurity, thus a desire to control and out of control situation.
    My wiser self now knows to run the other way when some guy explains his failed relationship with the line “she was too insecure and controlling” Another line that sends me running “she wanted something more” meaning I wanted to sleep with her, take every thing she had and commit nothing.

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    • Thank you for your comment. I agree; the next person who tells me as such, I will run so fast, they would just see the dust behind me! Can’t say I blame you! My ex-husband used to talk about how everyone was taking advantage of him, how I saved him, etc. He has said the exact same things to his current girlfriend, only I am apparently the abuser. I’m suddenly the bad person whom she saved. These types cannot be helped, so the best thing to do, is to keep moving.

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