The ex is always the scapegoat to the narcissist. The narcissist will claim their ‘ex’ ruined them, cheated on them, etc., when in fact, it was the narcissist that did all of these things. Don’t be so quick to believe the things they ‘claim’ about their ex …
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So true. Its like the narc sees himself in his partner. What’s unfortunate is when he talks about it others can believe him.
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Absolutely. It’s sickening how they act like the victim, whilst as you say others believing the narc. Unfortunately, been there, experienced that…
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Too funny. This is so true.
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Yep. Indeed.
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Thank you for sharing. It is amazing to see the reach of the narcissists flying monkeys. The lengths they go to, sometimes naively, to smear the ex is disheartening to say the least. Someone has to take a stand and maturely decide to interact with each individual without the bias of monkey chatter. There is hope when we “stand up and speak out!” http://www.hopehasahome.wordpress.com
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The thing is, flying monkeys are not immune to the narcissist’s behaviour, yet they still stand by their side. I couldn’t remain silent; how is being silent going to help anyone else?
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