You can never satisfy the narcissist. They have this mind game complaint where you’re forever trying to live up to their expectations. Their plan is to make you feel like a failure. This is really how they actually feel.
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The narcissist that was so king and wonderful to you just doesn’t exist. That charm you received initially is a tool they use to gain your trust, get you to open up so they read you page by page and know what to do and what not to do. When they know you are wrapped up in them, they go in for the tear down of your life. This mean, cold, moody, distant liar is the real them.
@Narseexposer via twitter
They sit and wait for it. Anything that comes out of your mouth is of value to the narcissist. This is one reason why dealing with them is so exhausting. The minute you let your guard down you regret it because they remind you that they can’t be trusted with anything.
@Narseexposer via twitter
They know everything real and genuine about you, but you know nothing real or genuine about them. This is for a reason. They have much to hide but it is eventually revealed and what is revealed is nothing nice.
@Narseexposer via twitter
The narcissist doesn’t gain information from you to use for your good. They are charmers, master manipulators. They know just how to keep you engaged and they know just what to do when they see you pulling away. They will be just what you want them to be for the moment to keep you from shutting down. Break free from that misery.
@Narseexposer via twitter
If you are the nurturing type, the kind that finds the good in people others have washed their hands of … you have to make boundaries for your own protection. Manipulators know just who to target and you are it. Don’t suffer trying to please these ungrateful, entitled people. Break free from them. Look out for you now.
@Narseexposer via twitter
You have to know how and when to shut down unwanted conversation with the narcissist. They suck you in with certain questions so that you spill everything out. What they do is store it and add it to their collection of ‘Use Against You’. Learn how to be evasive when telling your strengths, weaknesses and threats to them in what they want you to believe is simple conversation.
@Narseexposer via twitter
