“And so, a narcissist doesn’t have two faces, he has multiple faces.” ~ Kathy Krajco
“The plan was constructed by my husband: a psychopath – Someone who always hated me beneath his handsome mask.” ~ Americana Injustica
Sit for a few and let me outline a plan –
In a language that we can each understand;
Listen as I frankly describe –
What it’s like to be terrorized.
No matter a female, or a male –
The story’s the same and we all tell the tale;
A plan that belongs to an unnaturally cruel mind –
The gradual death grip that tightens with time.
Childhood fist fights lost, think back now –
That feeling of wanting a new identity, somehow;
The dip in the ego, embarrassment, shame –
Just shift this in its context to a given domestic domain.
The surprise and shock will absorb the first few hits –
The shame hides behind her down-turned, swollen lips;
Next to go: so quickly though, will be always, her pride –
Disbelief is that shimmering from either blackened eye.
The plan continues to play itself out –
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I remember when I changed my status on Facebook to ‘Single’ last year, *Steve’s mother had a lot to say about it. Despite her son having a wife he had abused (me), and a child who was only four months old (Max) when he entered another relationship, she was not happy that I stopped acknowledging our relationship.
In fact, in a nutshell, she had actually told me I had to wait for her son.
Yes, the stupid bitch went there.
So whilst Steve is there shoving his penis into and impregnating anything with a pulse, she wants me to put up with it, sit back and wait until he was finished and ready to come back to me.
Now I’m pretty sure I don’t have ‘mug’ written on my forehead – in fact I am absolutely positive I don’t. So why on earth would I wait for my abuser to be done with his life, then take him back into mine, only for me to have to build mine up again in a few years time? And may I add, this is after he’s had an additional X amount of children with X amount of different women.
Even at the end of the conversation, whereby I stressed to her that I walked away from her son because of his abusive ways, and that I no longer loved him, therefore would never get back with him, she still insisted that I should not list my status as ‘Single’. See what I mean about bat-shit crazy?
It’s OK though, because she is now ‘best friends’ with Steve’s pregnant girlfriend Britney, so here is what I have to say to her…
This is one of my Twitter accounts (I have two – one for Animal Advocacy; the other for Domestic Abuse and Randoms), in which *Steve’s biological mother was following. I use past tense as I unfollowed her so she unfollowed me a short time afterwards. Oh please, as if there’s a loss on my behalf.
Anyway, as you can see, it was I who made the effort for my son Max to be in the lives of his father’s side. There are more up to June this year, which I had to put a stop to due to the family’s back-stabbing ways. Not one of them came forward after all I had been through and after Steve had sent them a rude message, then cut them off. Yet, I have been told I am not a victim.
It clearly states that despite everything (that has happened to me at the hands of her son), I was still willing to let my son Max know that side of the family. Also, that she loves us both.
Oh really? So ‘normal’ people treat others that they love like shit and you just drop a grandchild because their son is irresponsible by having another child (third) with yet another individual?
And I’m being called ‘daughter/daughter-in-law’, then suddenly when the son who disowns his own family, and who can’t even stand the sight of his own mother, gets in touch with his family because he obviously needs something from them, they suddenly stab me in the back and think that’s OK?
Well, I guess it is. Because I know that next year, year after – in a nutshell, within the next few years, the family will fall out again, there will be a new pawn, the current pawn will be used a scapegoat, and the cycle will continue.
The thing about me is, I don’t put up with bullshit. None of them ever thought I would expose them and write about their behaviours. But I am different. I am not a little girl like the type they are used to dealing with. It’s always been hush hush with what has gone on with them.
But know this Steve and his family…
And unlike others, I’m not afraid to talk about what I know, well, because I can.
You all messed with the wrong woman.
Have a nice day! 😀
*Anna claimed the following:
Anna, 29/04/2011 16:46 – I’m very excited to have you for my sister and love how happy you make my brother. My eldest said to tell you she’s “asiceted you mawwy untle Beaw and I chan’t wait to see you! Wu you Auntie Pewsia!”
(Translation: “Excited you marry uncle Bear and I can’t wait to see you. Love you auntie Persia!”)
Yet, Anna and the rest of his family have some seriously questionable behaviour. It’s statements like this that makes me believe they are his enablers.
I am aware I made *Steve happy. Well, that was until my money ran out, I refused to do what he wanted me to, such as work and pay all the bills, including his daughter’s Child Support , and I called him out on many lies.
This particular conversation started when *Anna sent me a message in the early hours of the morning (you can see the time). Ever wondered who started calling *Britney a gap-toothed beast? Here’s the answer!
Me, 04/06/2013 03:04 – She must have paid because he has no money! I know from the bank accounts. He got with her to spite me. That’s backfired big time. She’s with him for what she can get because I know he’s feed her the story of how he has money. The way he was spending too, tells me so. Is your mum still in touch with him? Or did she unfriend him? I can’t begin to describe what she looks like. I just feel ill looking at her.
Anna, 04/06/2013 03:06 – Yeah I’m so sorry I can’t even imagine seeing my husband with another woman, especially a bald gap-toothed beast. The fact that he’s still married and she’s with him shows Me what trash she is! Mom unfriended and blocked him on Sunday I believe
Me, 04/06/2013 03:09 – I told him that she looks really bad in this for many reasons – no matter what he’s told her. She moved into the room WITH mine and Max’s stuff in there. What kind of woman does that? Do you know she has a 2 year old daughter? Doesn’t live with her though. Between them, they have 3 children who’s lives they’re not in.
Anna, 04/06/2013 03:11 – That is so pathetic. Talk about lazy! They deserve to fall on their faces. I couldn’t imagine not seeing my girls every day, it would kill me. They are spiraling downward together and they are going to crash and burn so hard
Those who stir the shit pot should lick the spoon indeed. And when karma comes round to bite them in the ass, they will! 😀
So… this is the sadistic family my poor son has been born into. Thank God I made the decision to cut them off.
Below is part of a conversation I had with *Anna, *Steve’s eldest sister. You can see from the date, I only found this out, this year.
Anna, 27/01/2014 02:22 – When I was about 9 years old, mom and dad had a love seat in their room, and they had been fighting and dad went to work, mom begged me to sleep on the love seat, so I did and when we were in the room I asked her why and she said that if I were there she knew that dad wouldn’t come in and rape her after work. I was terrified all night. And it’s so stupid bc dad would NEVER do that. I told him about that a few months ago, I had kind of forgotten about it honestly, and he was devastated, I mean crying at the thought that his daughter was afraid and thought he would do that. He was so hurt he said he wants nothing to do with her from here on out. There were many more times where she lied about him, to us and to others, implying that he was capable of horrible things. It was and is truly disturbing to me that she did that.
Me, 27/01/2014 02:29 – OH MY GOSH! What on earth would possess her to say something like that? I didn’t get that impression from your dad at all. I can only imagine how your dad feels hearing that. It’s something no one should lie about. Especially as I experienced it, I loathe shit like that. It’s heartbreaking. Because of shit like that it’s hard for real victims to get someone to believe them.
Me, 27/01/2014 02:30 – It also ruins the accused life, soul – everything when untrue. Wtf man? Wow. I didn’t realise she was that bad. I’m treading carefully with her.